Cheating is rarely something that “just happens.” Often, the feelings to wander out of a relationship accumulate over time — you just might not be aware that it’s on her mind. But you can stop yourself from being played by paying more attention to some telltale signs. Here are some things to look out for if you suspect she’s considering taking her sexiness elsewhere.
She Has A Case Of “Mentionitis”
Not to be confused with meningitis, mentionitis is when someone is afflicted with a certain person’s name that they just cannot stop themselves from dropping into conversation. It could be that your woman is constantly talking about Roger, her new partner at work, or Jordan, her personal trainer. No matter what the conversationwith you entails, it seems this guy’s name is sure to pop up like an annoying internet advertisement.
You: “Honey, we should go check out that new action flick.”
Her: “Jordan saw it and said it’s great!”
You: “I am so tired lately, I think I need to start taking vitamins.”
Her: “I was telling Jordan the same thing earlier.”
See? Don’t fret if you hear the name of one of her colleagues or friends every now and then — that’s just paranoia on your part. But if you’re hearing a little too much about some other guy on a regular basis and his name starts to appear in relation to more personal topics, it should alert you to potential danger. It’s like she just can’t help thinking about him.